Comments on: The Problem with Sex….

By: Cherie Amour

Cherie Amour — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 01:33:06 +0000

@ Diva: I 100% agree….. I’m not sure where these people get the idea that dude doesn’t have to packing to make you holler….In my opinion the chance of a small package making your eyes roll back in your head, is VERY SMALL! Def just say no…at least until you have some other concrete evidence that it will be worth matching uo your underwear and all the rest of that preparation we have to put in!!

@Twiggy LMAO!! I totally agree wit u gurl…If a guy bust…he had a good time…he got his! Ain;t no way dude can tell me “yea I buss but it still wasn’t gd” ….WTH??? lol
Thats what Im talking about gurl….no sex unless its one of those ones where ur sooo ready to go you skip dinner and end up getting to it in the car before u even reach the yard! …..We are BOTH patiently waiting *wipes sweat from forehead* lol…..patience is bout to kill me!

@Jessica …That is EXACTLY what I had in mind when I wrote this cos I did that ish before too…thought oooo he cute…this could be fun….only to end up pissed off and irrate that he managed to fool me…the worst thing is the guy always seems to either think he’s good or tries to play it off like it was you…..my whole thing is that its kinda hard for a gurl to be crap in bed….thus it’s untimately his fault…..let me ask you…what did u do next…delete the number or will you give him the benefit of the doubt and decide he was having an off day??
Don’t worry about it though gurl…..every woman has been in that situation… thing is you just have to learn from it and learn not to make the same mistake again, no biggie! Thats the thing about bad sexual encounters…you can put them in a box at the back of your mind, learn from them and then move on …. like it never even happened!! Glad you think it’s gd advice though hun!

Thanks for reading and commenting ladies! xcxcxcxcx
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By: diva

diva — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 23:42:36 +0000

Yes girl I am in the same situation right now this dude want to and I may want too but I think it will be a waste of time Idon’t think hes packing I know so I think I’m going to save my self time an energy and just say no…

By: Twiggy

Twiggy — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 07:44:09 +0000

Err Cherie , Here is your witness mate! I was having this conversation with a guy-friend of mine who tried to empathise talking about “even if a guy climaxes doesn’t mean he enjoyed himself”. Really? You could’ve fooled me and about a million other ladies. ‘Cos when guys notice that girls are not enjoyong themselves – as much (by that sideways glance you mentioned earlier), did they stop to ask BEFORE they climaxed- “whats wrong” Hell No! They kept on and now they can see the dissappointment clearly on a girls face they gunna try acting like it was bad for them too. Purlease geezah! Mediocre sex does not mek it, because while some girls are still watching those numbers, guys seem to have a more relaxed approach to this and so if the sex aint all that (ahem! not saying it always is, just…ahem) they dont seem to care as much, just move on to the next one, while us ladies sitting down talking bout I-should-have-stayed-my-horny-ass-at-my-yard-KMT! Celebate me thinks, at least until Im soo hot for a guy that I look at him like cayote looks at raod runner when he’s imagining roadrunner as a cooked turkey with all the trimmings and waves of deliciousness coming off him……. Yah!!! that could be a while. LOL

By: Jessica

Jessica — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:48:50 +0000

Damn I wish I would’ve read this article last weekend before I went out. I had a crush on this dude for a minute and thought it was gonna be amazing but it was definitely some “damn-I-knew-my-ass-should-have-stayed-at-home” sex, it wasn’t terrible but it wasn’t great so it wasn’t worth it. Good advice.