I just came across this YouTube Video (on a friend’s facebook page)and it kind of hit home to me! Check out what she had to say, as contrary to the title she is saying a lot more than just complaining that  ’ALL MEN ARE DOGS’ , in fact….brothers…..this gurl has got your back!

If you read my blog regularly you will see that I recently did a list of my Top Ten Turn Off’s…..but after listening to what she had to say I felt slightly embarrassed……I’m definitely guilty of what Shanel (the lady speaking) is talking about……

I’m like “he should have this and that and the third”….but when it comes down to it….I don’t work out(used to but got bored of it…though I must add I’m not out-of-shape….just could be a lil more toned ;D) I don’t have the career of my dreams yet (I’m trying but even I haven’t made it yet) and I’m not BALLIN’ outta control…..so it is a little hypocritical and silly of me to think that a man who DOES everything I DO NOT do would want me!

Now don’t get me wrong I do NOT think that it is ever appropriate for ANYONE to settle for a dead beat….I mean if you have ambition and it’s just a matter of time before you get that fab career and that house you’ve always wanted…..then just because you do NOT have it right NOW……doesn’t mean you deserve a partner with no goals, or a man with NO determination and NO potential to fulfill his goals!

I think my main lesson from this video is that ALL MEN ARE NOT DOGS! It’s just that you can’t demand everything when you yourself have nothing!

One response is to give the guy’s that are trying…but not quite there yet….the benefit of the doubt ….give a brother a chance…..maybe he’ll surprise you and turn out to be everything you NEEDED……rather than what you THINK you wanted!

But on the other hand…..I’ma still warn you that there is a line……a point at which you have to say enough is enough…..when things just NEVER going better……so you have to cut your losses and move on…..This was my personal experience…..

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Mi amours….I think Eva Marcille and Lance Gross are officially my new favourite couple.(Yea…I’m fickle but never mind…) The two are engaged and have actually been dating since 2007 and even though they are not a super-power couple as both of them are relatively new to the game…..they are super cute together!(eek…I just said super…..twice… the American lingo is rubbing off…..nooooo ) 

If you have no idea who Lance Gross is (like I didn’t before I moved to NYC) he is an actor who stars in Tyler Perry’s comedy series House of Panye and has made appearances in Meet The Browns (a Tyler Perry production), Eve and The Bernie Mac Show. To be honest he’s just starting out…. but definitely is one to watch out for….plus who can criticise him….he’s frickin gorgeous!

Anyhu how cute do they look at his Birthday Bash in Hollywood? …..which was hosted by his ANTMW(America’s Next Top Model Winner) finacé Eva:

Damn…..she is sooo incredibly elegant ALL THE TIME…..I reckon (think) she’s probably elegant even when she burps….THAT’S HOW DEEP IT IS! lol Anyhu……

On the other side of the couple coin there is Dawn and Que, who are both from Diddy’s ‘Making The Band’ groups…Danity Kane which unfortunately crashed and burned…… and Day 26, who I LOVE, and hope do not suffer the fate of all the other Diddy bands. Anyhu…..from EARLY ( U.S. Translation= since very early on) the two have been dating and totally loved up…..but Que recently went and got his AZZ INKED (tattooed) …..for his girl (again)……HE GOT A TATTOO OF HER LIPS ON HIS NECK! *Rolls eyes*

Check out what he had to say about his new tattoo…. plus MORE picca’s (pictures)….. CONTINUE READING AMOURS…..

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